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Remember Your First Kiss?

Was it HOT or was it ROT? LOL!

Most people remember their first date with their spouse or mate. But do you remember your first kiss? How did you feel? Did you swoon? Did you get butterflies? Did you feel happy and elated? Did you feel scared or unsure? Or were you like some people, who say they really didn’t like their spouse when they first met them, they had to grow on them. LOL! Was it a peck? Was it a deep throat throw-down type of kiss? Most people do experience strong emotions around their first kiss. Sometimes it’s dread, fear, panic, relief or exhilaration.

I remember my first kiss with my husband and I smile as I share my story with you. My husband and I met over 30 years ago. However, we have only been married 13 years. Our first date was on St. Patrick’s Day in 2006. It wasn’t until the third day of dating and about the 5th date that he swooped in to kiss me. Do you guys remember in those movies where the man kisses the girl in a very romantic scene and while they are kissing her back leg goes up! Well, that’s what happened to me! OMG! When his lips touched mine, the butterflies kicked in, my heart started palpitating and that leg went up. It was one of those deep throat, I don’t want to stop, it goes on forever, kind of kisses! I knew right then that I was head over heels in love!

Now, this did not happen in a romantic scene. We were actually at his place playing a board game, monopoly, I think. We were having a conversation, which led to ‘the’ moment of our future together. Do you remember where you were for your first kiss? Was it a romantic setting or were you somewhere comfortable? Were there people around or was it just the two of you? How did you really feel when he kissed you? Your first romantic kiss is usually etched in your memory forever! Love scenes in movies and books will usually cause you to have a connection to your own story. What is your story?

Kissing is something we re-experience over and over again!

What kind of kisses do you like most? Download a copy of the 17 Different Styles of Kisses and choose your favorites. Free download:

Did you know that research shows (University of Toronto) that people remember the details of their first kiss in detail much more than losing their virginity (and yes, men lose their virginity too!) 😊 Things that are emotionally arousing are usually etched in our memory with more clarity than something that is uneventful, whether it’s positive or negative.

We have found through lots of research that kissing has many positive effects on a person, both physically, mentally and personally. We were all taught not to kiss and tell. Today, we give you permission to kiss and tell!

We want to share with you how kissing can improve your relationship and your life. Join us for our Get Healthy Kiss Challenge 5 day Free Online Webinar, August 2-6. We will share with you 5 reasons why you should be kissing your spouse/mate EVERY day!

Register at before the deadline.

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James and Cynthia


About James and Cynthia Greene

James and Cynthia Greene are Founders and CEO of Marriage Built 2 Last. They are Marriage and Relationship Visionary Strategists. They help couples see what God sees for them! These dynamic speakers are unstoppable, on a mission and make no apologies for the destiny that they are on. Their desire is to reignite, redesign and reshape the way the world thinks about rmarriage. Their mission is to help get marriage back to it’s original intent since the beginning of time.

James and Cynthia are Certified Professional Life Coaches, certified Prepare and Enrich Facilitators, Certified ‘Crush the Stage’ graduates, and two-time Amazon Best Seller Authors. Their books are Don’t Get Married If…, and 40 Day Journey to the #MariageOfYourDreams. The couple hosts their annual conferences, CouplesFest and Black Marriages Matter. They have recently birthed the #1couples resource membership program, In Love and Loving It Academy ( They produce numerous workshops, online courses, local and online events, and coaching programs. You can watch James and Cynthia every Saturday morning on their live Facebook show, Breakfast with The Greene’s. The Greene’s have been featured in: The Huffington Post, Our Weddings Magazine, The Power Networking Conference, Billionaire Mastermind Forum, The Black CEO Morning Show, The Happy Entrepreneur Show, Praise 106.1 radio, numerous other radio shows, podcasts, online lives, conferences and more. They have been fondly nicknamed by fans, “America’s Favorite Couple”!

In addition to their own business and ministry, they serve in ministry at their church as Couples Counselors, Ministry Leaders for the marriage ministry and Deacons. Their passion is stopping divorce in its tracks, reading, travelling and spending quality time with one another and family.

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